You can use the After Update or LostFocus Event of Thickness(In) or Thickness(MM) and if there is a value > 0 entered in one - then you can Set the Enabled Property of the other one to False.
Eg:
Right-Click ThicknessIN
Click Properties
Click the Event Tab
Click After Update
Click Code Builder
Type in something like this:
Code:
If Me.ThicknessIN > 0 Then
Me.ThicknessMM.Enabled = False
End If
I have not tested the above code so you might have to tweak it.
I've put it there to give you somethign to start with.
Let me know if you need further clarification.