Problem with subdatasheet

[bryanno]

I am having a problem using subdatasheets. I am building a basic database that stores information about voulunteers(members) for a non profit organization. Most members are couples. The husband is generally the primary member. I want to list the wife as a secondary member in a subdatasheet. I want to only display the wife of the member that has been selected, rather than show the entire secondary member table (table of wives). Any suggestions?

[llkhoutx]

Relate both submembers not only to the primary key, but also relate the submembers to each other; or, create a junction table relating the primary key to each submember.