Further to Alan's recommendations and comments: The following will be helpful as you rethink your thoughts on Data bases.
Here are a number of free video tutorials related to database design concepts.
These free video tutorials describe the processes of data modelling, normalization and entity relationship diagramming. There are other videos, but this group is by the same presenter and covers an example situation.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IiVq8M5DBkk Logical data modeling
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGMwuOtRfqU Candidate key
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZiB-BKCzS_I Normalization
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pJ47btpjAhA Normalization example
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3Wg2fZENK0 1st Normal form
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vji0pfliHZI 2nd Normal form
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HH-QR7t-kMo 3rd Normal form
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1GaaGHHAqM E_R Diagramming
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lXAGQ8vmhCY ERD Part 2