Ok I am trying to follow both of your instructions do these relationships look OK as per screen shot
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I have attempted to take your advice Rainlover and have added the city, state and changed the contact table and it seems to work. I also linked city to site (is this correct)
Furthermore I tried to add tables as per TinaCa's advice are they correct with the relationships, I still can't conceptually see how it is going to work but I have decided to try it and hopefully I can figure it out once I start trying to add data/ forms and create queries
You will notice I have left in some other tables for now and I know you are opposed to at least the separate check-list tables. But additionally I am not sure about the inspection/ equipment ones either
meanwhile I have managed to make queries work with your table design Rainlover and have made a number of forms that appear to be working as well
Getting there slowly I hope