we can't get the data to open in this.
Not sure what that means. Maybe a solution that would work for you would be a 365 subscription so that you and 4 or 5 other family members can use whatever you sign up for. I don't know a whole lot about how M$ deals with application purchases but I suspect that when you purchase they equate something (e.g. your hard drive serial number) with that so you can't share. If you have to change the device to another, perhaps they can equate the purchase to another device (whatever your daughter is using) but you would lose access to the product. A 365 subscription would allow you both (and I think 3 others) to use the apps that comes with Office, but also Access because that's what you would have signed up for.
The more we hear silence, the more we begin to think about our value in this universe.
Paraphrase of Professor Brian Cox.