I've actually solved this problem but I don't like the way I did it. Ill try an structure this question as "theory".
The record in question is a "job" and it will link to the "contacts" table where data for all people outside the company is kept. I'm finding it very difficult to understand how one record in jobs can have two links to the same table (contacts).
The way I got around this was copying and pasting the contacts table in the ERD screen. But I highly doubt this is the correct way to do it, Its probably very simple (I hope haha).
So to clarify what I'm asking. ONE "job" has TWO "contacts". It has two fields for these contacts in the jobs and they are a requirement.
If any additional info is needed feel free to ask.
Thanks.