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Background
Guys, I inherited the development of a database, the person who built it unfortunately passed away. We have to make changes to a items table because, right now everything ships in one box, changes will allow some items to be shipped in multiple boxes with each box having the appropriate weight and dimensions.
Our items table keeps track of the weight and dimensions. And we have a UPS shipment query that pulls the item from the table based on a orders list and sends them to UPS for label printing.
I have found that if you duplicate the item's ID and add separate data for weight and dimensions, the query will pick out the item for each time the ID is listed and exports the information 100% perfectly from what I can see.
PROBLEM
Now our queries cant be changed or deleted. It'll say "recordset cannot be updated", or "Data is Read-only" I tried using "Dynaset (Inconsistent Updates)", and lets just say something like that can get you fired. It allows you to edit/delete, but it deletes information from tables that you don't want to.
deleting and updating records in the query should only makes changes to our Orders table, and that's what we want. Not deleting things from Vendors table and other tables aswell.