Exactly what John_G said, what you're trying to do is incredibly difficult with a non-normalized structure. How married are you to your current structure?
What you really should is a structure something like:
Code:
tblCustomers
Cust_ID Cust_FN Cust_LN ---> other customer related fields
tblVegetables
Veg_ID Veg_Name ----> other vegetable related fields
tblCustVeg
CV_ID Cust_ID Veg_ID
The table tblCustVeg is called a junction table because it connects to different tables, in this case connecting your customers to the vegetables they have on their list