June
Thank you for replying.
I did get the feeling that you had experienced something personally that supports your strong point of view. I would have been interested if that were the case.
Personally I try to keep an open mind when it comes to Rules. Mostly I follow them as they were intended, while at the same time keeping an open mind to possible variations. So far I have not experienced this endless headache.
Even Allen Browne in the link provided, shows an example where there are times to stick to the rules and then there are other times that they need a little bending.