the lawns owned by the customer are shown in a subform via combobox. I select the lawns I want to be included
Red flag - tells me you're using multi value fields yet I see no indication of that in the relationship pics. I say that because unless I'm losing it, you can't multi select from a combo unless that combo is bound to a mvf.
You might want to consider having this done professionally and incur a reasonable one time cost if this is going to cause you to take time away from the business you need to support. I imagine that even if lawn maintenance is delayed because of snow, you do snow plowing (which you could incorporate into this db) or need to focus on getting new contracts for the spring.
The more we hear silence, the more we begin to think about our value in this universe.
Paraphrase of Professor Brian Cox.