You could use the After Update Event of the checkbox to clear all the other checkboxes for that customer if the current one was selected. This means you will need a field or fields to uniquely identify the current address record (could just be an autonumber). The code in the After Update event might look something like this:
Code:
if Checkbox = true then
SQL = "Update tblAddress set chkDefault = False where Customer_ID = " & me!Cust_ID & " AND Address_ID <> " & me!AddressID
currentdb.execute SQL, dbFailOnError
me.requery
endif
Replace all the names I use with the actual names in your table and form.