Thanks for pointing me in the right direction! I was trying to disable or hide the checkbox, what I needed was to make sure the users checked the box when appropriate. Here's the vba I used in the AfterUpdate:
Code:
If Forms![management]![DeleteMark] = Forms![management]![Sent] Then MsgBox ("YOU CANNOT DELETE A PAYMENT THAT HAS ALREADY PROCESSED!")
If Forms![management]![DeleteMark] = Forms![management]![Sent] Then DoCmd.RunMacro "ClearDeleteMark"
The ClearDeleteMark macro sets the DeleteMark field back to Null.