I can get approval to do whatever is needed
I not a betting man so I hesitate to take that one on. I think your solution needs to be terminal services or Citrix. In either case, the actual fe would reside locally and be accessed from elsewhere. I'm not sure if ts fits a "I'm in another city" type of scenario but Citrix would. I've used it from home to access fe on network and found the response to be quite acceptable. That's saying something, given that traffic had to go through my router, then ISP router before getting to the work network. AFAIK, SharePoint and Access is no longer considered to be the best thing since sliced bread if you ask M$oft.
The more we hear silence, the more we begin to think about our value in this universe.
Paraphrase of Professor Brian Cox.