Its been a few days and I'm not sure I remember exactly what you want from this query.
Try this - it gives 1577 records
Code:
SELECT Attribute.[Constituent ID], Attribute.[Constituent Specific Attributes Contact Preferences Import ID], Attribute.[Constituent Specific Attributes Contact Preferences Description], Attribute.[Constituent Specific Attributes Contact Preferences Comments]FROM Attribute
WHERE (((Attribute.[Constituent Specific Attributes Contact Preferences Date]) Is Null))
GROUP BY Attribute.[Constituent ID], Attribute.[Constituent Specific Attributes Contact Preferences Import ID], Attribute.[Constituent Specific Attributes Contact Preferences Description], Attribute.[Constituent Specific Attributes Contact Preferences Comments]
HAVING (((Count(Attribute.[Constituent ID]))=1));