See if you can create a Select query to return the work order data from the linked spreadsheet in Access. If you can, and include whatever fields you will require at the Update stage, you're halfway there. You might be able to convert the Select query to an Update.
I get the impression from reading replies that there might be some confusion about updating versus appending. You can't update a record that doesn't exist, so let's be sure which it is you need. Sometimes, it's necessary to append a record, then from a source that couldn't be involved in the original append, you perform the update on the newly appended record in a different query. You might have to post some data that resembles the original tables and records you are trying to affect, and the sql statement you're using to attempt that.
The more we hear silence, the more we begin to think about our value in this universe.
Paraphrase of Professor Brian Cox.